Un 11.4
The verbs ‘aimer’, ‘haïr’, ‘plaire’ and ‘rendre’
The verbs ‘aimer’, ‘haïr’, ‘plaire’ and ‘rendre’ are handy when talking about people’s feelings and emotions.
Le verbe 'aimer'
The verb ‘aimer’, on its own, corresponds to the feeling of love. This is especially so when talking about people. When talking about things, it will correspond to a less romantic type of this emotion. Note that, when referring to a general idea or category of something, a definite article is typically used after verbs such as ‘aimer’, unlike in English.
e.g.
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Je t’aime. |
I love you. |
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Aimez-vous le chocolat ? |
Do you like chocolate? |
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Tes fils n’aiment-ils pas les animaux ? |
Don’t your sons like animals? |
The adverbs ‘bien’ and ‘beaucoup’ can be added to the verb ‘aimer’ to soften the level of liking to a non-romantic one.
e.g.
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Je t’aime bien. |
I like you (as a friend). |
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Elle aime bien ses colocataires. |
She likes her roommates. |
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On aime beaucoup les vendeurs ici. |
The salespeople are well-liked here. |
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Ils aiment beaucoup leur pays. |
They really like their country. |
The verb ‘adorer’ can be used to show a strong liking for something or someone, without any romantic associations. This verb is seldom used in the negative.
e.g.
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Ils adorent leur prof de biologie. |
They adore their biology prof. |
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Elles ont adoré le film. |
They absolutely loved the movie. |
Le verbe 'haïr'
The verb ‘haïr’ describes a very strong negative emotion, corresponding to the verb ‘to hate’. Its conjugation and pronunciation require special attention.
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haïr – to hate |
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je |
hais |
nous |
haïssons |
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tu |
hais |
vous |
haïssons |
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il elle on |
hait |
ils elles |
haïssent |
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Past participle |
haï |
As the verb ‘haïr’ begins with an h aspiré, liaisons and contractions do not occur with this verb.
e.g.
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Je hais cela. |
I hate this/that. |
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Ils te haïssaient, je pense. |
They hate you, I think. |
Le verbe 'plaire'
The verb ‘plaire’ describes a positive feeling that something or someone creates for someone else. This emotion is less intense than what verbs such as ‘aimer’ and ‘adorer’ describe. In terms of conjugation, the use of the accent circonflexe in the third person singular has somewhat recently become optional in the present tense, but this change has not been adopted by all francophone users. This same conjugation pattern can be applied to the verb ‘déplaire’.
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plaire – to please |
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je |
plais |
nous |
plaisons |
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tu |
plais |
vous |
plaisez |
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il elle on |
plaît / plait |
ils elles |
plaisent |
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Past participle |
plu |
Unlike for similar verbs, such as ‘aimer’, the person experiencing the emotion takes up the role of indirect object (COI) for the verb ‘paire’, while the thing causing the feeling takes up the role of the verb’s subject.
e.g.
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Oui, mes beaux-frères me plaisent. |
Yes, I like my brothers-in-law. |
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Ça me plaît. |
I like that. |
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Honnêtement, cette idée-là me déplaît. |
Honestly, I’m offended by that idea. |
Le verbe 'rendre'
The verbe ‘rendre’ follows the same conjugation pattern as the verbe ‘répondre’ (see Unit 10).
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rendre – to render ; submit ; give ; make |
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je |
rends |
nous |
rendons |
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tu |
rends |
vous |
rendez |
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il elle on |
rend |
ils elles |
rendent |
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Past participle |
rendu |
When describing the fact that someone or something creates a change in state, emotion etc. in someone else, the verb ‘rendre’ is used. This type of situation is described by the use of the subject (who/what is creating this change), the conjugated verb ‘rendre’, the direct object (COD – what is being changed), and the adjective that describes the change. The adjective will agree with the direct object. Note that, in English, the verb ‘to make’ is typically used for these types of sentences, but its usual equivalent ‘faire’ is not used for this context in French.
e.g.
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Cette situation me rend contente. |
This situation makes me happy. |
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Tu vas rendre les voisins heureux. |
You’re going to make your neighbours happy. |
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Rends-toi utile. |
Make yourself useful. |
There are also a few expressions using the reflexive form of the verb ‘rendre’.
e.g.
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Ils ne veulent pas se rendre. |
They don’t want to surrender. |
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Je dois me rendre à la mairie. |
I need to go to city hall. |
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Le criminel s’est enfin rendu à la police. |
The criminal finally turned himself in to the police. |
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Je me suis rendu compte hier que c’était en fait vrai. |
I realized yesterday that was in fact true. |
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Il faut se rendre compte du fait que tout le monde est unique. |
You have to appreciate the fact that everyone is unique. |
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J’ai rendu visite à mes cousins à Bourges. (cf. Je veux visiter Québec.) |
I visited my cousins in Bourges. (cf. I want to visit Quebec City.) |
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Nous allons leur rendre visite bientôt. |
We’re going to visit them soon. |
Exercices
Un 11.4 - Ex. 1
Un 11.4 - Ex. 2
Un 11.4 - Ex. 3
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